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armwriostle) wrote2024-07-12 07:40 am
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30s / male / anyone / 7♦
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Rather than put my information here so gratuitously, why not arrange a date and we can meet and chat? I would much prefer that.
Return home at some point. Is that what most people would put here?
The only thing I know how to do is sexy arrests.
I know exactly how to stick out my legs and ass while throwing a criminal down. I know how to pose for the camera while snapping the cuffs over their wrists. I can strut and show off my glutes and thighs while leading them away to the police car.
I've spent my whole life sexily arresting that I don't know what else to do. I'd love for you to introduce me into hobbies and experiences that I can do sexily.
I kept this one because it was amusing.
Can someone tell me what Die Hard is and who Bruce Willis is? Thank you.
That aside, I'm fond of classical and jazz music. If you know me then you must know my fondness for tea at this point.
Ah...
Wrong. The right choice is tea.
.02 CLOWNS OR MIMES
No real experience with either. I know of some magicians though.
.03 SHOWER OR BATH
I never really had the luxury of baths, so I would say showers.
.04 PIRATES OR NINJAS
Considering I am always around water, I might be partial to pirates.
.05 TITS OR ASS
Making me choose? Well, I suppose one can really enjoy a good ass.
.06 COFFEE OR TEA
My answer from before hasn't changed. Tea.
.07 SPICY OR SWEET
Sweet
.08 SUMMER OR WINTER
Warmth and sun is so rare, so I'm partial to Summer.
.09 LEATHER OR LACE
Leather
10. ROUGH SEX OR GENTLE SEX
Rough Sex
ENTJ-A
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My assumption would be that you see a mirror. Your profile claims you have trust issues. It's far easier for you to try and encourage me to resolve something in my life than something in your own. Then I would feel warmly indebted to you and perhaps offer you the praise your profile also claims you seek.
[She was also raised among kindred. There was always a goal behind every interaction. Every move was a way to gain something they wanted- material goods, political power, human influence.]
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It's true. I find it difficult to trust people off the bat and it is difficult to reach a point where I would claim I might trust someone.
I do not really keep that a secret.
My want for people to resolve things has very little to do with that and merely that I prefer for issues to be resolved.
My want for praise also has very little to do with any of this.
Sorry to say, but praise in this sense is 100% of the sexual connotation.
[He doesn't really need it in his normal day-to-day.]
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[That thought is completely derailed by the blunt admittance of "no, that's a sex thing."]
That is a gap in my knowledge. I see. I'll have to consider that moving forward.
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Sorry, sorry. That was probably a lot to learn about a stranger, though I guess this whole app thing is meant for that in the first place.
I'm not actually all that interested in pushing into things outside of your comfort level.
So if there are topics you rather move to talking about that are more comfortable we can switch to those.
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You're kinder than this place, it seems.
I have a question. Did you discover that about yourself in this place or were you already experienced before coming here?
Of course, if you are uncomfortable answering, you may say so.
[If he's going to be nosy, friendly, and capable of talking about those things then... she might as well figure out what she can.]
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Hm. I don't mind answering.
That in particular, I already knew I enjoyed it.
I would say that it's been offered to me here, where it was a rarity before.
My previous experiences were mostly quick things to let off steam.
You can get that here too, but people here have the luxury to do more than that.
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Since this place is so focused on the act itself things that may not have been a priority before can now be explored and capitalized on.
Are there people here that find frustration with people who are inexperienced?
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People here seem to want to have a good experience and with people whom we'll most likely see again, I imagine people want to make the best of it.
I don't think people mind.
I've met plenty who are inexperienced through my times here and I've not heard anyone ever bring up their disdain for inexperience.
It's important to merely communicate clearly is all.
Communication is important in any relationship, but especially with sex.
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At what point in the interaction do you communicate?
In an existing relationship there is time for conversation and mutual agreement but I have also heard there are much quicker dalliances.
Is there a type of business card that could be printed for such things?
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I think some people do have some assumptions when it comes to these things.
Like I don't expect much needed communication on something quick and fast. It's really just getting off and going back to my day.
Most communication probably occurs when there's more extremes being put on the table. Kinks that need discussing to make sure everyone is aware of what to expect and there's no surprises. Signals or safe words that need established incase limits are pushed and the such.
That's usually discussed ahead of time.
I don't expect there to me much talk, say giving a blowjob through a gloryhole.
I do expect that a scene that might have restraints involved to have some amount of basis and agreement though.
These things are fluid though so it's alright to just communicate properly than to not. You don't want to end up getting hurt or taken advantage of, I imagine.
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I see. If there are excess worries it's best to air those out rather than not.
I fear I may have too many worries and too short a timeline for my adjustment to this place.
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Things like this are best to be discussed fully.
It avoids being taken advantage of. And not in the way that you want.
You can start out easy.
As far as I'm aware, this place is pretty loose about the requirements as long as there's some form of sex.
Hell, I'm pretty sure things through text or video even count if you don't want to quite meet someone face to face yet.
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I see. Many more things count than just sex.
[... yeah, 1920s with poor sex ed means of course "sex" is penetrative intercourse. She's advanced just by knowing there's gays out there doing the penetrating different ways.]
If you recorded a video for someone, though, couldn't they simply show the video to anyone else?
Is there a way to delete it?
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Sex can be a lot of things I believe. Pleasuring one’s body in a multitude of ways is pretty broad.
[Time for her learn the multitude of ways to get off. She can keep her pussy pristine if that’s what she wants.]
I’m not savvy enough with the technology here as I would like to be.
I’m not sure you could delete it from your side.
I guess I wouldn’t feel comfortable sending any random person a video. I’m not really one to be in front of a kamera in the first place.
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There are many technologies that exist here than did not exist for me. I do not mind having to learn but there are so many new things to learn. In addition I have to learn about what is necessary here for my well being. It is frustrating.
Forgive me. I did not need to send you that sort of thing.
May I send you an image? To see if I can alter or delete it.
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I can imagine it's a lot to take in.
It's no problem.
If you want to send me an image to test things out, you can. I don't mind.